Love & Relationships
Venus in Taurus is drawn to steadiness and physical presence. Somebody who is reliably there and comfortable to be near, and Mars in Virgo goes after it by being useful, and by noticing what nobody else noticed. The two signs are four signs apart, which is what decides whether the wanting and the chasing agree.
Venus is the placement that answers what attracts you and how you show affection, and it is a far better guide to somebody's love life than their Sun sign. With Venus in Taurus you are drawn to steadiness and physical presence. Somebody who is reliably there and comfortable to be near.
You show affection by providing: food, time, touch, consistency. What you need in order to feel loved is to feel that this is not going to be taken away, and the thing that reliably puts you off is unpredictability, and affection that runs hot and cold. That last one is worth knowing, because the turn-off is usually more consistent across a lifetime than the attraction.
Mars is the other half: how you pursue, how you argue, and what you want physically. With Mars in Virgo you chase by being useful, and by noticing what nobody else noticed.
You fight with specifics, accurately, which is worse than shouting. What you want is attentiveness, and getting it right. And the way it gets stuck is criticising, when what you meant was helping, which is the specific failure mode of this Mars and the thing most worth watching for in yourself.
Taurus and Virgo are four signs apart, which is 120 degrees apart, a trine. This is the part that makes the combination more than two separate placements, and it is the part almost every page about Venus and Mars leaves out.
Same element, which makes this the smoothest of the combinations. The attraction and the pursuit are made of the same material and reinforce each other, so romance tends to feel natural rather than effortful.
The cost attached: no pressure to develop. A trine does not make you work at anything, which is comfortable and leaves a gap where the skill would have been.
| Venus in Taurus | Mars in Virgo | |
|---|---|---|
| What it covers | What attracts you | How you pursue it |
| Element | Earth | Earth |
| Mode | Fixed | Mutable |
| Ruled by | Venus | Mercury |
| At its best | By providing: food, time, touch, consistency | By being useful, and by noticing what nobody else noticed |
| Where it goes wrong | Unpredictability, and affection that runs hot and cold puts you off | Criticising, when what you meant was helping |
Both signs are Earth, which is the simplest version of this: the wanting and the chasing are made of the same material and they do not argue with each other.
In practice: somebody drawn to steadiness and physical presence. Somebody who is reliably there and comfortable to be near, who pursues by being useful, and by noticing what nobody else noticed. Because the two work together, what you want and what you do about it tend to point the same way, and people generally find you readable.
The argument version is worth thinking about separately. You fight with specifics, accurately, which is worse than shouting, and you need to feel that this is not going to be taken away. Those are compatible, which means conflict in your relationships tends to resolve rather than accumulate.
Venus in Taurus in full and Mars in Virgo in full cover each placement on its own. Venus trine Mars covers the aspect itself, for anybody whose Venus and Mars are close enough in degree for it to count properly rather than merely being that many signs apart.
Which houses these two fall in is the part that makes it personal, and that needs a birth time. Here is how to find yours.
Drawn to steadiness and physical presence. Somebody who is reliably there and comfortable to be near, pursuing by being useful, and by noticing what nobody else noticed. The two signs are four signs apart, so the attraction and the pursuit work with each other.
To feel that this is not going to be taken away. It is put off by unpredictability, and affection that runs hot and cold.
With specifics, accurately, which is worse than shouting.
Neither good nor bad. An easy angle makes you consistent, which is not the same as being well matched with any particular person.
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