Venus in Taurus and Mars in Scorpio: Opposite Signs

Venus in Taurus: what you are drawn to

Venus is the placement that answers what attracts you and how you show affection, and it is a far better guide to somebody's love life than their Sun sign. With Venus in Taurus you are drawn to steadiness and physical presence. Somebody who is reliably there and comfortable to be near.

You show affection by providing: food, time, touch, consistency. What you need in order to feel loved is to feel that this is not going to be taken away, and the thing that reliably puts you off is unpredictability, and affection that runs hot and cold. That last one is worth knowing, because the turn-off is usually more consistent across a lifetime than the attraction.

Mars in Scorpio: how you go after it

Mars is the other half: how you pursue, how you argue, and what you want physically. With Mars in Scorpio you chase quietly and completely. You decide first and act later, and you rarely change your mind.

You fight by going cold, remembering everything, and waiting. What you want is intensity, and all of somebody's attention. And the way it gets stuck is testing people rather than asking them, which is the specific failure mode of this Mars and the thing most worth watching for in yourself.

The angle between them, and why it matters

Taurus and Scorpio are opposite each other, which is 180 degrees apart, an opposition. This is the part that makes the combination more than two separate placements, and it is the part almost every page about Venus and Mars leaves out.

Directly across the wheel. The thing you are drawn to and the way you pursue it are opposites, which produces a push and pull inside one person: you want what you are not, and you chase it in a way that is the opposite of what would attract it.

The cost attached: it is the most visible of the configurations from outside, and the one most likely to produce a pattern of being attracted to people who are wrong for you in a consistent and recognisable way.

Earth and Water are different elements, so even where the angle is easy there is a genuine difference in material between what you want and how you go about getting it.

What this actually looks like

In practice: somebody drawn to steadiness and physical presence. Somebody who is reliably there and comfortable to be near, who pursues quietly and completely. You decide first and act later, and you rarely change your mind. Because the two are at odds, there is often a gap between the kind of person you are drawn to and the kind of approach you actually make, and that gap is where most of the trouble lives.

The argument version is worth thinking about separately. You fight by going cold, remembering everything, and waiting, and you need to feel that this is not going to be taken away. Those do not sit together easily, and the usual result is arguments that end without the thing you actually needed having been said.

What to do with it

1. Check it against your actual history rather than against how you would like to be. Venus and Mars are descriptions of a pattern, and the pattern is in what you have done.
2. Watch for testing people rather than asking them. That is the specific way this Mars goes wrong and it is the most actionable thing on this page.
3. Say what you need out loud. Venus in Taurus needs to feel that this is not going to be taken away, and nobody can supply that by inference.
4. Stop treating the friction as a flaw. This configuration produces people who are good at relationships precisely because it made them think about it early.

Where to read next

Venus in Taurus in full and Mars in Scorpio in full cover each placement on its own. Venus opposition Mars covers the aspect itself, for anybody whose Venus and Mars are close enough in degree for it to count properly rather than merely being that many signs apart.

Which houses these two fall in is the part that makes it personal, and that needs a birth time. Here is how to find yours.